
A New York–based domina with over a decade of experience. My heart is in the mix, and often the oscillation, between intense pain and small moments of sweetness. Incredible with my hands and with an apt mind for anatomy, I know how to hold you while we push your limits together.
I'm a fetishist with a taste for a bit of everything. In some moments I may come off as a demanding girlfriend who loves to laugh (especially at you), and I also have a great need for your total indoctrination.
height 5′11″
based New York
hair natural red
shoe 11
build giantess
With 10+ years of experience and education, I've earned the title of a veteran fetishist. Some may see me as warm and inviting. That's only to make you comfortable as we slowly reach the limit of your ability to truly serve.
Basic shibari, from simple ties to full-body ties. Plastic wrap, latex, and household and BDSM-safe items. I love immobilization and making human pretzels.
I get creative, from paddles and crops to household items like wooden spoons. I've also boxed for over a decade, so my impact is precise and safe.
Wax, ice, electro, and sensory deprivation. Blindfolds and hoods take away everything except the heart-pounding feeling of impending pain or pleasure.
To earn your place as one of my devoted, you learn my titles, rules, and protocols, and how we begin and end our time together. Practice makes perfect, with or without me: homework, education, posture, routine, and correction.
I appreciate a man who knows how to worship. It isn't as simple as a gaze, a grope, or indulging yourself. It's making an offering. It's service. Be prepared to learn how to care for another through soft touch and pampering: massage, bathing, and other spa rituals.
I've trained sissies of all kinds. Genderfluid in heart and expression myself, I love corrupting something so socially constructed and otherwise meaningless. Womanhood is never a humiliating label here.
Anticipation, control, and chastity keyholding, in session and between them.
My favorite roles are your doctor, your general, your boss, and your teacher.
Humiliation, degradation, praise, and mind games. I can break you without lifting a finger.
Tell me about specific outfit requests ahead of time. Some carry an additional fee depending on the details, and so does bringing clothes for you to wear.
So while I get asked, "Are you a lifestyle domme?" I know the question really is: "Will you act like you like me and own me on our fist hour of seeing each other?" and that answer is Fuck No.
I do not claim strangers and why would you want me to?
However, if the question is: "Do you enjoy being dominant?" and for the right submissives, Fuck Yes. But work is hard. Are you a lazy pervert or are you diligent and attentive?
If you want to understand what it means to have a deep D/s connection with me, your best way to do that is to see me or call me regularly so we can have ongoing conversations about what we are looking for in each other.
Long term still requires support, I don't know why anyone would think it wouldn't. You are here to support my legacy right?
Chemistry and intimacy built through BDSM require more patience than expected. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy building it.
Truly, deep down, I crave control, to indoctrinate, to break down, and to hit men. Men who know how to cater to me through all of it and educate themselves along the way are most likely to be someone I build with.
Other dynamics that I have had throughout my life and love have included many types of submissives who range in play style.
Ongoing can mean homework between sessions, shopping lists, essays, regular check ins about training to become a better servent, puppy, pansy, or whatever you think you want me to make you.
More information after you verify.
Well-rounded in education in your safety. Here is some basic information for you:
Safe Words & The Stop Light System
BDSM 101 for submissives
My email is encrypted, and I delete booking forms once I've read them. I verify every client. booking + faq →
Thank you. Here's what happens next.
verification
Email your verification documents to aubrey.nyc@pm.me to speed things up. Once you're verified, I'll send you the password to my members-only page.
book your phone consultation
Once you're verified, choose a time for our call on my members page. It's $100 for 30 minutes or $200 for an hour. After our call, no deposit is needed for our appointment.
scheduling
After our call, we choose a day and time for your session.
confirmation
I'll follow up the night before or the morning of. I'm always on time.
This form will be deleted once I've read it.
Thank you for applying. If it's a good fit, I'll reach out within [x days].
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A New York–based domina with over a decade of experience. My heart is in the mix, and often the oscillation, between intense pain and small moments of sweetness. Incredible with my hands and with an apt mind for anatomy, I know how to hold you while we push your limits together.
I'm a fetishist with a taste for a bit of everything. In some moments I may come off as a demanding girlfriend who loves to laugh (especially at you), and I also have a great need for your total indoctrination.
height 5′11″
based New York
hair natural red
shoe 11
build giantess
With 10+ years of experience and education, I've earned the title of a veteran fetishist. Some may see me as warm and inviting. That's only to make you comfortable as we slowly reach the limit of your ability to truly serve.
Basic shibari, from simple ties to full-body ties. Plastic wrap, latex, and household and BDSM-safe items. I love immobilization and making human pretzels.
I get creative, from paddles and crops to household items like wooden spoons. I've also boxed for over a decade, so my impact is precise and safe.
Wax, ice, electro, and sensory deprivation. Blindfolds and hoods take away everything except the heart-pounding feeling of impending pain or pleasure.
To earn your place as one of my devoted, you learn my titles, rules, and protocols, and how we begin and end our time together. Practice makes perfect, with or without me: homework, education, posture, routine, and correction.
I appreciate a man who knows how to worship. It isn't as simple as a gaze, a grope, or indulging yourself. It's making an offering. It's service. Be prepared to learn how to care for another through soft touch and pampering: massage, bathing, and other spa rituals.
I've trained sissies of all kinds. Genderfluid in heart and expression myself, I love corrupting something so socially constructed and otherwise meaningless. Womanhood is never a humiliating label here.
Anticipation, control, and chastity keyholding, in session and between them.
My favorite roles are your doctor, your general, your boss, and your teacher.
Humiliation, degradation, praise, and mind games. I can break you without lifting a finger.
Tell me about specific outfit requests ahead of time. Some carry an additional fee depending on the details, and so does bringing clothes for you to wear.
When I am asked if I am a dominatrix in my personal life, I know it doesn't matter what my answer is. I understand that I can be many things and a part of hta tis because I do being weird and perverted. There is always an element of performance to dominance dynamic, especilly in a single session. If you want to understand what it means to be someone that I have a deep d/s connectin with, where our conversations and movements are natural, then your best way to do that is to see me regularly. There is no possible way for me to truly know who you are as a submissive before our first time together.
Chemistry built in intimacy through BDSM, I believee requires more patience than expected. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy first meets. Truly, deep down, I crave control, to indoctrinate, to breakdown, and to hit men. Men who know how to cater to me through all of it and educate themselves along the way are most likely to be someone I build with.
Other dynamics that I have had throughout my life and love have included many types of submissives that range in play style. I also enjoy people who would like ongoing homework between sessions.
More information after you verify.
Well-rounded in education in your safety. Here is some basic informtion for you:
Safe Words & The Stop Light System
BDSM 101 for submissives