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[main photo]Aubrey Singer, New York dominatrix

about

A New York–based domina with over a decade of experience. My heart is in the mix, and often the oscillation, between intense pain and small moments of sweetness. Incredible with my hands and with an apt mind for anatomy, I know how to hold you while we push your limits together.

I'm a fetishist with a taste for a bit of everything. In some moments I may come off as a demanding girlfriend who loves to laugh (especially at you), and I also have a great need for your total indoctrination.

height 5′11″

based New York

hair natural red

shoe 11

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[photo]Aubrey Singer, New York dominatrix
[photo]Aubrey Singer, New York dominatrix
[photo]Aubrey Singer, New York dominatrix

practices

With 10+ years of experience and education, I've earned the title of a veteran fetishist. Some may see me as warm and inviting. That's only to make you comfortable as we slowly reach the limit of your ability to truly serve.

bondage + restraint

Basic shibari, from simple ties to full-body ties. Plastic wrap, latex, and household and BDSM-safe items. I love immobilization and making human pretzels.

impact play

I get creative, from paddles and crops to household items like wooden spoons. I've also boxed for over a decade, so my impact is precise and safe.

sensation play

Wax, ice, electro, and sensory deprivation. Blindfolds and hoods take away everything except the heart-pounding feeling of impending pain or pleasure.

discipline + protocol

To earn your place as one of my devoted, you learn my titles, rules, and protocols, and how we begin and end our time together. Practice makes perfect, with or without me: homework, education, posture, routine, and correction.

body worship

I appreciate a man who knows how to worship. It isn't as simple as a gaze, a grope, or indulging yourself. It's making an offering. It's service. Be prepared to learn how to care for another through soft touch and pampering: massage, bathing, and other spa rituals.

feminization

I've trained sissies of all kinds. Genderfluid in heart and expression myself, I love corrupting something so socially constructed and otherwise meaningless. Womanhood is never a humiliating label here.

tease + denial

Anticipation, control, and chastity keyholding, in session and between them.

roleplay + fantasy

My favorite roles are your doctor, your general, your boss, and your teacher.

verbal + psychological

Humiliation, degradation, praise, and mind games. I can break you without lifting a finger.

fashion

Tell me about specific outfit requests ahead of time. Some carry an additional fee depending on the details, and so does bringing clothes for you to wear.

long-term arrangements

what does that mean?

When I am asked if I am a dominatrix in my personal life, I know it doesn't matter what my answer is. I understand that I can be many things and a part of hta tis because I do being weird and perverted. There is always an element of performance to dominance dynamic, especilly in a single session. If you want to understand what it means to be someone that I have a deep d/s connectin with, where our conversations and movements are natural, then your best way to do that is to see me regularly. There is no possible way for me to truly know who you are as a submissive before our first time together.

who am I looking for?

Chemistry built in intimacy through BDSM, I believee requires more patience than expected. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy first meets. Truly, deep down, I crave control, to indoctrinate, to breakdown, and to hit men. Men who know how to cater to me through all of it and educate themselves along the way are most likely to be someone I build with.

other welcomed dynamics

Other dynamics that I have had throughout my life and love have included many types of submissives that range in play style. I also enjoy people who would like ongoing homework between sessions.

how it begins

More information after you verify.

safe, sane, consensual

Well-rounded in education in your safety. Here is some basic informtion for you:

Safe Words & The Stop Light System
BDSM 101 for submissives




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